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Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

10.06.2025 00:18

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

No country for ugly people…

BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Can you tell me a depressing story?

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

Do you have any attributes quirks sensitivities abilities etc that you've come to learn most people don't experience? E.g. dream with subtext or experience de ja vu regularly or know you experience life very differently from those around you etc?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

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